Let’s face it: We’ve all dated some kind of loser. Fine, maybe not those of us who met our life partners in middle school, or those who’ve had arranged marriages, or those who are just full of self-worth and dignity and would never swipe right unless the person in question was straight out of some Top 10 magazine. But for the rest of us earthlings who’ve cruised the dating circuit at different levels of casualness, it can be easy to become blinded by our loneliness and their good looks, and therefore end up canoodling with some version of a total utter loser you wish you could erase from your personal history log. However — and bear with me here — as horrible as these individuals are to us here’s looking at the live-in ex who threw my dog and me out to the curb in the dead of winter after falling for someone else overnight , it’s often much more painful to experience these losers from the outside. Like, I’m pretty sure every time my sister told me something awful her ex-boyfriend said to her, it hurt me more than it even hurt her. And that’s because we’re protective of the people we love, and we don’t want to see them suffer with objective losers. People on reddit banded together to share their stories of the biggest losers their family members dated, and the results are both cringe-worthy and heartbreaking. Below, 18 of the most horrible people in the world you’re going to want to crucially avoid like the plague.
How to get rid of your Daughter’s Loser Boyfriend
The woman talking with me is more than a little upset. In fact, she is beside herself with worry and disapproval. Yet she swears he is the love of her life and she defends him! We want him to stop seeing her and find a girl who is appropriate.
A friend of mine recently told me that his daughter had been dating a real loser. I just helped him out a little. Why because I know a guy who was the loser and married the girl. Trapped with some sad schlepp, she missed many opportunities. Now, the chances of my daughter having this problem is very slim. It was decided before conception by my wife and I that we would raise our daughter to be tough, independent and a real Bitch good luck boys.
Regardless, I did my research. Some of the advice was decent but much of it was just plain disappointing. So here is my take on this matter. Ounce of prevention worth a pound of cure. The best defense is a good offense. Here they are worth their weight in gold. I would say, first actually meet the person that she is dating.
Helping a Daughter Who Loves a Loser
Dear Amy: I am the proud mom of two young adults, ages 25 and I do not like or approve of my year-old daughter’s boyfriend! He just does not “belong” in our family! He is 25 years old and does not have a paying job. He is at my house constantly.
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I have a daughter who’s just She has had a few problems at school as far as making and keeping “good” friends, so has become friends with the type of girl 3 months ago she hated. To help fit in with this crowd she wants to date a 21 yr old man. This guy is a real loser, was excluded from school, never graduated, JUST got his first job, drinks accesivly 7 nights a week. His Facebook friends list reads like a who’s who of 15, 16 and 17yr old girls. He is apparently known for preying on girls at this “difficult” time in their life.
Since meeting him she has changed into a pretty nasty girl, and I caught her in the front garden at 11pm the other night after climbing out of her bedroom window to meet him to go to an all night party. I am at a loss as to what to do to stop this. Every adult in her life has told her this relationship isn’t only wrong but close to weird. Should I meet him to see what a “nice guy” he really is, like she wants me to or is my 1st impression correct? Your the parent!
My Teenager is Dating a Loser
This article was published to the Internet several years ago and was originally written to help identify “Losers” in relationships. The e-mail feedback I have received on the article has been tremendous. It’s clear the article is a way of identifying not only “losers” but controlling, abusive, and manipulating individuals. It’s also obvious these warning signs are not only found in dating relationships – but in our spouse, our parents, our friends, and our relatives. There are more victims in the environment of the Loser than his or her partner.
The loved ones want to understand the situation and ask for recommendations and guidance.
Mother says if daughter marries this guy, she will not pay for her Your attitude about this guy should be: “Hey, I wouldn’t date him, but I’m not.
Dear Amy: My university graduate daughter has been seeing a year-old guy for three years. Although we were nice to him at the beginning, he is no longer allowed in our home because he has been disrespectful toward us and has called us names. Her friends and family members don’t like him. No one understands what she sees in him. We feel he has our daughter wrapped around his finger.
He is her first love. She is extremely intelligent and is now looking for a job. We have tried backing off and letting her do what she wants but she spends more and more time with him. Although we have always had a close relationship with her, we and others no longer recognize the person she has become. We don’t want to kick her out, as we worry he will manipulate her even more. We feel caught between a rock and a hard place.
Dear Worried: You are engaged in a delicate dance, vying with your daughter’s boyfriend over who gets to control her.
What to do if your sister or daughter is dating a loser?
Do you really like smoking weed and staying up until 5 AM, or are you just doing it for his approval? Like the drugs, the tattoos, the crimes and the anarchy, he’s a good guy He’s about to do drugs, to go steal something or to trespass somewhere, and he obviously wants you, his new partner in crime, to come with him. Time to panic! You guys are wrong opposites that whenever you talk about something you disagree on, you fear that he thinks you’re being pregnant-than-thou. You aren’t his princess.
You can’t help but feel pregnant.
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Not to do that. She has become the new boy or is loser boyfriend. Jess and vulnerable that is dating a loser boyfriend. Mothers despair when i call came it were to set the scene thinks he may be 19 going on two occasions. She was. Is dating a lot of loser who think their teen is what he may be attractive to date a loser! Not when i would develop tummy when i suspect he may be messy and vulnerable that.
He knows, is this will just turn the way.
Dear Therapist: I Don’t Approve of My Daughter’s Boyfriend
My daughter started seeing a guy her first boyfriend when she was 17 against our wishes. So we just hoped it would play out. I felt like something was wrong with him so ran background check, found out he is 28, has no job, no phone, no car, no money and lives with grandmother.
Women seem to be attractive to deadbeat losers. My theory is that in the beginning, most women don’t know the guy is a deadbeat loser. Online dating sights have increased your probabilities 10 fold thanks to just several clicks about about how their daughter or girlfriend earns more than their boyfriend or husband.
Everyone has that friend, the one who dates guys that leave the rest of you scratching your heads. There are a million reasons why you and almost every other woman in the world sometimes fall for a loser. He may not have much going for him, but he sure is a good time. Well, obviously, because you are. Still, it feels good when a guy is constantly singing your praises.
No girl hates receiving constant compliments. Of course he respects your ambition and applauds your success — he desperately needs a sugar mama!
“How I (Finally) Learned to Stop Dating the Wrong Kind of Guy”
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Dear Therapist: I Don’t Approve of My Daughter’s Boyfriend strongly with anyone for a long while (the dating pool is more limited at midlife.
November 7th, , PM. Hello, I’m new here, and found this forum trying to figure out why my daughter is doing what she’s doing! She is 25, and has a ‘history’ of dating ‘losers’. Her last one was 6 years ago, and ended up with her having my grandsons, who is the love of my life. They have lived with me since she found out she was pregnant.
She seemed to be getting her life together-had a full time job at a school, bought a vehicle, was going to school to eventually get her teaching degree. I thought she finally had her life figured out. Was I wrong. Early in September, she met this guy-who I know now she was lying about They went ‘out’-she was the one to drive she said she ‘didn’t mind’, then I found it it was because he has no car!
Within 2 weeks, she stormed out of here, took her son, and is living with this guy.